Folsom Street East is this Sunday in New York City

… and MetalbondNYC.com will be there!

17Yes, I’ll be at Folsom Street East along with some of my bondage buddies. We will be passing out free handcuff T-shirts, and doing some bondage demos. Stop by and say hello in person!

Also taking place this weekend is LEATHER PRIDE NIGHT, on Saturday:

18Both of these events need volunteers. For details, click for FOLSOM STREET EAST and LEATHER PRIDE NIGHT.

 

 

Jail vs. Prison

OK prisoners, I said this before but I will say it again. The words “jail” and “prison” are often used interchangeably, but actually they are two different things.

01_Metalbond_Alcatraz“Jail” is a where you are kept when you are being tried for a crime, or are awaiting trial or sentencing. It is also where you actually serve your sentence for misdemeanors. Jails are generally run by counties or municipalities. Jail is where you go when you get arrested. If you are OJ Simpson, jail is where you go when you are unjustly accused of double murder and have to go on trial in Los Angeles. Of course everyone knows he was completely innocent, so they released him from jail.

“Prison” on the other hand is a broad term that describes a variety of institutions, from maximum-security “penitentiaries,” to medium-security lockups known as “correctional facilities” or “correctional institutions.” Prisons are run by the states or the federal government. Prison is where you go to serve your sentence when you have been convicted of a felony. It is where O.J. ended up after being convicted of something in Las Vegas, nobody really remembers what but apparently it was serious. Prison is where you do hard time. It is where you get tattoos. Prison is where you get fucked by Christopher Meloni in the shower.

Now that you know all this, you will probably start to notice all sorts of incorrect uses of these words in news broadcasts, on TV shows, in movies and in general conversation. Before you get your cuffs all in a twist and start emailing me, accusing ME of misusing the terms “jail” and “prison,” hang on. I know I have probably violated these rules myself on this very blog.

 

Here are some more pictures of jails and prisons and the men who dwell in them:

 

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Your questions, answered

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Here are emails from some of you guys, along with my responses:

 

Dear Metal,

I would love to know if anything new has happened to Jockstrap. Those posts were amazing. I wish I were in his shoes.

Metal responds:

I have not heard from Jockstrap in a while. He was making me photoshop and re-photoshop his pictures before posting them, and it got a bit too tedious for me. Hey Jockstrap, if you are out there somewhere, send us some smoke signals, OK?

 

 

Dear Metal,

I thought that you might like to hear about an experience I had a few weeks ago with a well-equipped younger handcuff enthusiast in California. My captor was a pleasant guy whose sole ambition in the scene is to lock someone up in cuffs and not let them out for a while. The outfit he had me in was a pair of BOA handcuffs with a special black box attached to a waist chain, locked with a high-security lock in the back well out of reach. The leg irons were also BOA high security cuffs with about a 12-inch chain, which made walking a little more fun. The black box on the handcuffs was specially made for the BOA cuffs, supposedly one of only a few ever made by the company. The whole effect was very restrictive, I couldn’t have dreamed about getting out on my own, even with the keys. The special black box had large protrusions on the front for the BOA lock tumblers, which rub on your wrists and are really uncomfortable. I’d say that 3 hours in the outfit is about all a person could take with their hands being pried on by the black box, which is how long he kept me in them for.

About halfway through, he thought I had too much freedom, and he added a pair of Ripp-restraint tubes over the cuffs. Then he just made me sit there on the couch. It was a great time, and really got me turned on to high-security cuffs. All of my standard cuffs feel so inadequate now compared to being locked in cuffs that require a very special key with the black box over them.

I liked the story you posted from Mike on the ADI cuffs he got to try on. I’d love to be locked in a pair of those for a while.

—David

Metal responds:

Damn, David, that sounds amazing! Try to get pictures next time, OK?

 

 

Steel,

Just a note of thanks. I really appreciate your being there every morning with something hot every morning (and afternoon)!

—Bob, Chicago

Metal responds,

Thanks Bob!

 

 

Dear Metal,

Have you ever ordered anything from Handcuff Warehouse? And are they a reputable business?

Metal responds,

Yes and yes.

 

 

Dear Metal,

I love to be put in bondage from mild to wild, with emphasis on wild. My problem is that I don’t have anyone to put me in bondage. I live in Florida, but am not able to travel because of financial reasons. Do you know of someone who would like to put me in bondage on a regular basis? I can host and have enough bdsm toys to equip a dungeon, but do not have a dungeon. I have been put in a straightjacket, mummified with duct tape, tied with rope, bound with steel restraints, handcuffs, leg cuffs, and more. Please contact me and I will give you more information.

Metal responds:

Hey guy, sounds like you need to post a profile on Recon with some pictures. A well-equipped and enthusiastic guy like you should be able to find tons of play partners! You might also want to read this recent posting. Best wishes,

 

 

Hi Metal,

I have a quick question for you. Do you know of anyone who is willing to hold the key to my chastity device until they believe I am ready to be released? If you happen to know somebody please let me know.

Sincerely,

Pup Neo

 

Dear Pup Neo,

Have you ever been to the LockedMen site? There are lots of guys there who offer all sorts of long-distance keyholding challenges and dares, etc. You can also use the chastity keyholding service they offer at Mr S — yes, they really do this, and it really works!

 

 

 

Hi Metalbond,

I’m a fan of your site from the UK. This video was on Xtube, but then it disappeared. Have you come across this video before, and if so you know if it is still available anywhere?

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From seeing your site it’s good to know that there are others who actually prefer bondage to sex.

Metal responds,

I don’t know where that video came from, but I would imagine someone reading this will know. Let’s see if anyone responds in the comments.

 

 

Hey Metal,

Just wanted to say hello and let you know I’m still “kicking” when not chained and sometimes then too! Back when you were seeking donations to help with the website expense, I didn’t give anything, but I want to and can now.

—Jerry

Dear Jerry,

Your contribution would be very much appreciated. To pitch in, you can click on the PayPal button in the column to the right, toward the very bottom. You’ll have to decide if you are a “minimum-security,” “super-max” or “life without parole” kind of guy. The funds go to “LockerJock” and are used for hosting fees and site development costs — including an upgrade that is currently in the works. (Stay tuned for more information about that.)

 

 

Dear Metal,

I have been interested in being a prisoner and being constrained since my pre-teens. This site is awesome! Do you offer anything like Mens Central Prison where one can pay to role-play being locked up like it’s really prison? Or if you don’t, is there a place like that in the NYC area?

Metal responds,

I’m not aware of a facility like that here on the East Coast. But in my view, from what I can tell the Mens Central Prison would be worth the cost of a plane ticket, plus whatever other fees they are charging.

 

 

Dear Metal,

Do you ever do blogs on bondage using dog runs? I once saw a picture and thought it was hot.

Metal responds,

You might want to click for my various Dog Training posts. Also the posting Keeping a Line on Your Bottom might be of interest to you.

 

 

Hi Metal,

I really want to thank you for all the great posts on your site and the inspiration for me to buy two chastity devices — a metal one locked on for over 24 hours a few weeks ago, and now the leather shorts. What would you recommend for the best comfortable device for at least a week?

—Nick

p.s. I am locked up while I am sending this message with no escape till 8 a.m. tomorrow.

Metal responds,

If you want comfortable, you will definitely want to stay away from The Punisher. The Boy Trainer is an easier device for longer-term wear, in my opinion. Click here to see both in use.

 

 

Dear Metal,

Probably hard to find, but I would love to see pics of men with their legs wrapped around the head of another while being serviced.

Metal responds,

Sounds great to me!

 

 

Dear Metal,

It is hard to find the words to describe how much I enjoy your site. I view it every morning, and again in the evening, ALWAYS looking forward to whatever may be the new post. The stories have been incredible, some of my all-time favorites. There are several that I re-read regularly. The bondage pics, the descriptions, are TRULY a gem!

Thanks for ALL that you have done in helping others explore their fetish behavior/lifestyle. Truly a gift to all of us out there.

—Dave

Metal responds,

Wow Dave, thanks!