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Metalbond mail: How to find the right chastity device

Dear Metal,

Hey, I have been a longtime fan of your website. I was wondering if you knew anything about chastity play? I have been wanting to explore it, but I haven’t found a chastity device that fits me well. The silicone devices chafe really bad, and my dick is able to fall out of my metal birdcage device. I would like to get a device that is comfortable yet keeps me from cheating. Do you have any suggestions?

 

Metal responds,

Yeah, finding a chastity device that fits well can be difficult. It takes a lot of trial and error. Have you ever been to the Lockedm4m site? There are guys there who know all about specific devices.

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Another place to do some research is the Altarboy site. And also, Denying Thumper has a great site, with lots of resources. I would suggest you check out those sites to learn more about something that might work well for your own junk.

I recently had the opportunity to meet dipperpup, the guy behind the Lockedm4m site, at a play weekend I attended. One suggestion he had, is to experiment by getting a cheap knockoff of whatever you device you might be interested in, to see if that works for you, before investing the big bucks on a good quality cage you might want to wear long term.

Cocks and balls come in all shapes and sizes, but the good news is that so do chastity devices!

 

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Edge Device – Part 1

By Strappeddown

“I’ve never seen anything like it,” I commented, holding the strange device in my hand.

“It has extremely advanced electronics in it,” Jim told me. “I have tested it on myself for a few weeks and used it on other boys. It works exactly as advertised — very devious.”

“Does it have a remote control to deliver shocks?” I asked.

“Yes, it can do that — from my computer over there, but that isn’t what I mean. You’ll see if you want to give it a try.”

Continue reading Edge Device – Part 1

Using a public toilet while locked in chastity

A Metalbond reader sent me this report recently:

The lock “clicked” against the cock cage’s plastic tube when I pulled my pants down and freed the cage from the jock that I was wearing. The rattle seemed loud enough to be heard throughout the bathroom. But was it loud enough to make the other guy pause and try to determine what the sound might be? Was it loud enough to make the guy wonder what I was doing as I sat in the stall?

The guy had been standing at the sink area when I came in and was taking his sweet time in front of the mirror. Had he really heard that clicking? I could just see him through the small opening between the stall’s door and the wall. But that meant he could see me too. I hadn’t thought about that before I dropped my pants and exposed the cock-cage. Was he really able to see through the gap and into the stall – was he able to see the cage itself?

I quickly sat down, shoving the cage between my legs so that I could piss like the chastity slave that I am. The trickle of piss sounded very weak as it splashed into the toilet. I’m sure the guy thought I was some kind of wuss – no piss stream.

I was done, but he was still standing there – I hesitated to stand up. Could he see the cage? And if he did, could I be even more humiliated than I already was?

Here are some pictures of men in various chastity devices:

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Chuck’s Cup Jock Chastity

Speaking of cup jock chastity, check out the pictures and information that Chuck sent a while back:

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Chuck writes:

I was recently inspired by Metalbond’s post about using a cup to begin chastity training. So I wanted to show how a cup can also be used for REAL chastity.

Here’s a leather chastity belt I got from Worn Out West in The Castro. It works pretty well on its own, but by inserting a plastic cup (Like the one Metal suggested) into the pouch, it works perfectly … you are not able to touch ANY of your junk.

I wish I could wear this belt 24/7, but being leather, it’s not good to get it wet. Also, there’s no provision for when you need to go to the loo.

But here are a few pics to show how a cup makes a good belt better … even perfect for overnight and that morning wood, shall we say:

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Here’s the chastity belt, the cup, and two combination locks, all needed for the restraint.

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The cup sneaks in, ready to do its dirty work.

Getting everything in place here. Everything!

There it is, all good and tight. Now what were those combinations again?

There we are, all tucked in for the night. And I have tried hard, it will not come off. The belt fits just above my pelvis, and it won’t drop down when it’s strapped on and locked.

This thing is so comfy… I wish it would work all the time.

—Chuck

Chuck can be found on Gearfetish.com as “Kuffed.”

He’s also been featured over at SeriousMaleBondage from time to time.

 

Chastity with a hard cup

You don’t need to spend a lot of money on an expensive cock cage to dip your toe in when it comes to chastity. Just get yourself a cup jock!

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A while back, I challenged a guy on Recon (screen name Developing) who expressed an interest in chastity to wear a hard cup for a whole week, not beat off for that whole week, and to go jogging every day and do lots of pushups, and I asked him to keep a journal about his experiences.

Here is the journal Developing kept:

 

Hey Metal,

It’s Monday: I’m excited that I decided to take you up on this challenge. I definitely got nervous buying the cup jock, but loved putting it on for the first time. I started off getting pretty hard right away, and you definitely can feel the restriction! Can’t wait to see how the rest of the week feels.

Tuesday: Reality set in a bit more today about what wearing the cup jock would mean. Woke up in the middle of the night with a painful hard on, and had to try to think of non-sexy things to get it to calm down. Wearing the cup to work was exciting but put me on edge, I feel like the bulge is obvious in my pants. No one seemed to notice anything though. The run was tough; I liked it because my clothing was tight so the bulge was a lot more obvious, but running was slightly painful. Tuesday night I went out with some friends to a bar and actually forgot I was wearing the cup for a bit, which was actually pretty cool. It’s already started to feel semi-normal for me not to have access to my dick.

Wednesday: Today I felt a lot hornier than before. The jock is starting to smell a bit, which has ended up being a huge turn-on, so I made sure to run in the jock even if I didn’t use the cup. I also love touching the cup, it reminds me of my position but it also mentally is like jacking so it calms down that need a bit. I cooked dinner and basically was humping the counter tops while doing it because it felt so good! Push-ups have been a great way to release pent up energy, and I’m making sure to focus more on form than number!

Thursday: I am horny! I pretty much resigned myself to distracting myself so that I don’t lose my resolve and take off the cup. It’s the first day that I had to actively force myself to stay in it. I ended up not really spending much time on Recon as a result, and doing everything I can to not think about anything kinky. This weekend is going to be tough.

Friday: Went to work as usual, I’m getting so horny that I don’t sleep well at night and I’m distracted during the day. After work, drove to NC to visit my cousin. I was nervous about spending the night on her couch and sleeping in the cup jock but it worked out fine. We went to a club and I danced with one of her friends who definitely felt something in my pants and gave me a weird look but never said anything. That got me going!

Saturday: My dick leaks pretty much non-stop now. The jock smells really rank, I like sniffing it before I hop in the shower. This week feels like it’s been going on forever! I can’t wait until Monday. Spent the day with my cousin, so nothing too crazy happened.

Sunday: Monday is so close. I rub the cup far too often but I need to. Sex is constantly on my mind. I drove back from NC today and felt like I had one hand on the cup for most of the drive. It’s going to feel a little weird not having the cup on after tomorrow, I may wear it occasionally just for fun. I’m also not sure if I want to wash the jock when I’m done with this, I worked hard for that smell. Tied my ankles together like you asked for when I went to sleep — definitely got me going! Made my last night in the jock even harder than usual.

Monday: All day I was in anticipation. When I finally got home from work, it didn’t take me very long at all to finish myself off. My balls ached from being drained after holding it in for so long. I jacked off with the cup over my face like you asked me to do, very hot! Thanks again for this challenge.

Guys, I have said this before and I will say it again. If you are interested in learning about chastity, but you aren’t sure you are ready to invest in a device, get a hard athletic cup from the sporting goods store, or buy one online.

A good source for jocks is Jockstrap Central:

 

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Also check out the Cellblock 13 G-Force, available from Mr S:

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