Tonight is New York Dirt night at the Eagle NYC
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Here are some shots from earlier today of the Gay Pride Parade in New York City. The leather contingent looked great this year!
For me, watching the guy from the Eagle NYC in the leather jock and kneepads, who was being a total pig, crawling around on all fours in front of an NYPD officer, was the highlight of the day for me. Also Superman doing pushups.
Happy gay pride everybody!
After the parade, you can hang out with the leather guys over at the NYC Eagle
Welcome to the newly re-designed Metalbond site. Do you like it? I must give a big thank you to tallglassofoj for his professional web development services. This new look marks the fourth iteration of the Metalbond site. And I am so glad to have this fresh look online, just in time for this weekend’s Folsom Street East block party here in NYC, where Metalbond will be one of the official exhibitors! If you live in NYC or are visiting, be sure to stop by on West 27th Street between 11 and 4 tomorrow, Sunday, June 22, 2014, and say hello in person (more on that below).
I started Metalbond on May 18, 2003, to be exact, on Blogspot, which was the forerunner to Blogger. That original site is still online. Way back then, a friend and play buddy at the time, LTHR EDGE, was doing a project in which he wanted to get 100 people to start blogs, so I figured what the heck and started one of my own, under his encouragement. It was text-only, more of a journal really. Here is what that original site looked like:
Then in 2009, I got more serious about things and started up a new site, hosted by the (now-defunct) Thumblogger free service, complete with lots of pictures and external links. Kristofer Weston, aka Mr. Kristofer, helped me out quite a lot back then, to get started. Sadly, Thumblogger vanished a few years back, but if you go to the WaybackMachine and search for metalbond.thumblogger.com, you can still see that old site, which is surprisingly intact. This is what my old Thumblogger site looked like:
Fortunately, by the time Thumblogger vanished, I had already migrated to paid web hosting, where I have been ever since. It has been a lot of fun running this website as a “side project” (I work full-time). Looking at my back-end dashboard just now, I see that I there are currently more than 2,400 postings here, including more than 340 stories. That’s a lot of jackoff material, ain’t it?
But it’s fun. And through this website, I’ve had the opportunity to meet lots of great guys and have some very cool adventures, including multiple visits to Serious Male Bondage, where I got to be featured in some of their photo shoots and videos. Mark of Serious Male Bondage has been a huge help to me over the years, offering tons of advice and encouragement. Another highlight for me, made possible by Mark, was getting to meet and interview Van Darkholme of Kink.com in person at the Armory in San Francisco. I also got to meet Bind of Men In Chains, and Richard Hunter of Mr S, and Ruff of Ruff’s Stuff, among many, many others. Last year, I was featured in a podcast over at the No Safe Word website, which was great fun, as well. (I haven’t met that crazy pervert Marknorth yet, or Rbbrstorage, but hopefully someday.)
So that brings us to New York City’s Leather Pride Weekend 2014, and Folsom Street East.
I was at the very first Folsom Street East. And the second. And the third … and way too many for me to remember. I was a bootblack back then, and I still have pictures somewhere of me doing that. Folsom Street East was founded by GMSMA, an organization I was involved with at the time. Back then the block party was on West 13th Street, in front of the LURE. Of course now the event is in Chelsea, near the NYC Eagle.
So, be sure to stop by the official MetalbondNYC table at Folsom Street East and say hello. A few of my bondage buddies, including Pisslurper, will be there. We’ll be giving away free T-shirts, which were graciously provided by Master Mike. And we will have some handcuffs and other locking metal gear to try on, if you are brave enough (just ask). And I’m also going to try to do some live blogging from the event, as well. It should be fun. You’ll want to look for the guys in the orange prison jumpsuits.
… and MetalbondNYC.com will be there!
Yes, I’ll be at Folsom Street East along with some of my bondage buddies. We will be passing out free handcuff T-shirts, and doing some bondage demos. Stop by and say hello in person!
Also taking place this weekend is LEATHER PRIDE NIGHT, on Saturday:
Both of these events need volunteers. For details, click for FOLSOM STREET EAST and LEATHER PRIDE NIGHT.
I’ll be taking a table at this year’s Folsom Street East, so come by and say hello to me in person on Sunday, June 22!
Folsom Street East is
“BACK ON THE STREETS OF NYC”
Sunday, June 22, 2014
11 am – 4 pm
West 27th Street between 10th and 11th Avenues
The Suggested Donation is $10, with proceeds going to charity.
I’ll be there with some special friends, passing out free handcuff T-shirts in two different designs (pictured), and doing some handcuffing demonstrations and some other fun stuff. (If you’re interested in helping with this, let me know!)
For general information on this street fair, click for the official Folsom Street East website. They also need volunteers to help run the event.
A Metalbond reader recently sent me this via email:
Dear Metal,
I’m 33 years old, gay male. I’m looking to sort of “ease into” local gay BDSM. I’m a bit sexually shy, but I have, as long as I can remember, found myself attracted to BDSM. I’ve finally worked up the nerve to try and get into it beyond looking at websites. I’m looking for advice on how or where I should go in New York City to meet some people. If you have any advice, it would be greatly appreciated.
My response:
A great place to start is the New York Bondage Club. They meet on Sunday nights at Paddles on 26th Street. You can join in the action if you like, or just watch, and it is great place (in my opinion) for beginners.
The education-focused GMSMA (Gay Male S/M Activists) closed down several years back, but some of the alumni from this organization have formed BDSMU, which bills itself as “a new organization focused on building education and camaraderie in the NYC kink community.” They offer monthly events at the Eagle NYC. You can connect with BDSMU via their Facebook page.
Workshops and classes on various topics are also offered at The Leather Man (primarily gay men) and Purple Passion / DV8 (a more “heteroflexible” crowd) on various topics. Check their websites for class offerings, times and dates.
Also, if you haven’t already done so, should put up a profile on Recon. There are lots of local guys out there, and if you get the app you might find (since this in New York Fuckin’ City) that some very hot bondage stud is closer than you can imagine! And he can’t wait to get his hands on a horny newcomer like you!
When you do meet up with someone, be sure to be careful! That means meeting in a public place before going home with the guy, telling someone where you are going, etc. You might find this article from the Anti-Violence Project especially helpful.
Have fun — and send me an email sometime telling me about your adventures!
—Metal
Folsom Street East is back this year!
WHEN:
Sunday June 22nd, 2014
11 AM – 4 PM
WHERE:
West 27th Street, between 10th and 11th Avenues
BENEFITING:
Anti-Violence Project + Housing Works +
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom + Cycle for the Cause
WHAT ELSE?
New York City’s Finest Performers
Eagle NYC Beer Garden
Kinky Good Times
Note it’s one block south this year, on 27th Street (not 28th). More information is at the event’s official site.
They also need volunteers.