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Still Locked In, Still Free

Today — March 11, 2026 — marks the 17th anniversary of MetalbondNYC.

If you’re just discovering the site (or if you’ve been here since the beginning), this is a free, independent gay bondage website dedicated to the physically restrained male. This was my very first post back in 2009:

first post on the Metalbond site

 

That core dedication hasn’t changed. Over these 17 years, the site has grown into a curated space for pictures, porn previews, gear links, and especially the Prison Library — the collection of erotic fiction that remains one of the most popular and enduring features. With thousands of stories from hundreds of authors — with a brand new one, PupMax, about to make his writing debut — it has become a real resource and escape for readers who crave detailed, immersive tales of restraint, discipline, captivity, and submission.

As always, a huge thank-you goes to Atlanta Stud, who reliably texts me every year to remind me of the anniversary (I still forget birthdays, but he keeps me on track — thanks, man!). Shout-outs also to all the authors who have sent stories over the years, the readers who have shared pictures and feedback, the fellow kinksters who have linked here or supported in other ways, and everyone who just keeps coming back day after day.

In a time when so much adult content is being censored, de-platformed, shadow-banned, or removed from algorithms on mainstream sites and services, MetalbondNYC remains completely self-hosted and independent. I’ve built this website to last, and I plan to keep it going as long as I possibly can.

Whether you’ve been here for 17 years or 17 days, thank you for being locked in with me! Your visits, comments, and support keep the lights on and the chains secure.

Stay restrained, stay free.

— Metal

metalbondNYC chain and padlock collar

GagManiac to present at KnottyNY

GagManiac to present at KnottyNY

 

KnottyNY is hosting an engaging workshop with @GagManiac focused on the art and techniques of gagging within bondage and kink scenes. The class, taking place Tuesday, Feb 3, 2026, from 7 to 10 pm, will explore key questions such as:

  • Why incorporate a gag?
  • How to make a tape gag adhere effectively and securely?
  • Ways to ensure a gag remains comfortable during extended wear?
  • What exactly is a rope gag, and how is it applied?

Participants will gain hands-on demonstrations of various gagging methods, along with practical discussion on safely and consensually integrating gags into scenes. This is your chance to meet @GagManiac, a noted bondage content creator known for expertise in restraints and tape gags.

For those newer to rope bondage, a dedicated 101 section will cover foundational knots and basics, consistent with the group’s regular introductory offerings.

Opportunities for free admission are available to a limited number of volunteers assisting with setup and cleanup — those interested should reach out via email to inquire.

This class provides a structured, educational environment for learning advanced techniques while prioritizing safety and communication in kink play.

Other upcoming KnottyNY events include:

  • Valentines Speed Tying
  • Rope At Rockbar

Learn more about Knotty NY at their official website, located here.

Be sure to get on their mailing list!

Rope bondage social for gay men in NYC

Sock worship at Pork Night at the L.U.R.E.

I just stumbled across this photo set and instantly recognized the setting: the L.U.R.E. bar in New York City. Look closely and you’ll spot the Pork sign behind the cage — that gives it away. This was from the Wednesday night party at the L.U.R.E., though back then I had a 9-to-5 office job in Manhattan, so staying out that late was usually a no-go. Fridays and Saturdays were my nights instead. That was the rhythm of my life in the 1990s.

cocky man in underwear and boots on a throne

Sock worship at Pork Night at the L.U.R.E.

Sock worship at Pork Night at the L.U.R.E.

Wednesday night party at the L.U.R.E.

Wednesday night party at the L.U.R.E.

sock worship at Wednesday night party at the L.U.R.E.

These pictures are from Foot Friends

The title of this video is Soldier Socks

 

These pictures are from Foot Friends

The title of this update is Soldier Socks

Foot Friends

male foot worship video

Sock worship at Pork Night at the L.U.R.E.

Get Knotty Tonight at Rockbar: Rope, Men, and No Pressure

KnottyNY has been building something special, and tonight (Monday, October 28, 2025) they’re taking over Rockbar for their quarterly event.

What makes this night worth showing up for? It’s simple: real men, real rope, and a no-pressure environment where you can relax, watch, or dive in if the mood strikes. Whether you’re experienced with bondage or just curious, this is the kind of event where everyone is welcome, and respect is built into the vibe.

KnottyNY bondage meetup flyer, New York City

 

Things start early with a Knotty Members Happy Hour at 6 PM, a great chance to grab a drink, meet other guys, and get comfortable before the main event kicks off at 7. Expect performances, raffles, and plenty of rope action until around 10 PM — and if you know Rockbar, you know the night doesn’t necessarily end when the lights go down.

I’ve been around the NYC rope scene for years, and trust me, not every city has something like this anymore. If you’ve missed the old New York Bondage Club nights as much as I have, here’s your chance to feel that energy again — only this time it’s with a new crew of guys who are keeping the rope scene alive in NYC.

If you’re in town, make the effort to show up, say hi, and support the guys who are keeping our community connected and thriving. You can watch, you can play, or just soak it in — either way, you’ll leave feeling good that you showed up.

No cover. No pressure. Just a room full of men, rope, and possibility.

Click for KnottyNY

Rope bondage social for gay men in NYC

Matt’s Midnight Submission Slam: The Boss’s Leather Grip

By Matt Nemo

Aight, picture this: I’m Matt, your everyday NYC grindin’ sub dude, 28, built like a wiry punk with tats snakin’ up my arms and a collar kink that hits harder than a subway rush. Workin’ some dead-end gig in the Village, but nights? That’s when the real party’s poppin’. One Friday, I’m scrollin’ Grindr, horny as hell, when this daddy-type—call him Jax—DMs me: “You look like you need a real man to own that ass. My place. Now. Wear nothin’ but your jock.”

Heart racin’, cock twitchin’, I bolt over to his loft in Chelsea. Door swings open, and bam—Jax is this 6’4″ leather god, beard like a fuckin’ forest, harness huggin’ his ripped chest, eyes drillin’ into me like lasers. “On your knees, boy,” he growls, voice low and gravelly, makin’ my hole clench just hearin’ it. I drop, pavement burnin’ my skin from the walk, but who cares? This is sub heaven.

Continue reading Matt’s Midnight Submission Slam: The Boss’s Leather Grip

Happy Locktober to all who celebrate

It’s Locktober! Who’s in on the action this year? For those of you in and around New York City, there will special events!

CagedJock and Kink3D are hosting Locktoberfest this coming Saturday, October 4, 2025, from 10 pm to 3 am in Brooklyn:

Caged Jock Locktoberfest

Details about Locktoberfest here

Also in NYC, Peter Cage will be hosting LOCKED: Locktober Edition on Tuesday, October 14, 2025, starting at 7 pm at Rockbar NYC.

ROCKBAR Locked event

 

And then Peter Cage and Pup Roger will host PERV: Locktober Finale, on Thursday, October 30, 2025, starting at 7, also at Rockbar NYC.

LOCKED Chastity Social Rockbar

 

For those who need to purchase a chastity cage, click here

The Viper male chastity device