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Kink Brotherhood

There is a NEW bondage-themed play party for men taking place in Brooklyn (Park Slope section), hosted by Master Alek and Barry. For those of us who miss the glory days of the New York Bondage Club, this is great news! The new Kink Brotherhood is a play party for gay and bi guys with kinks.

The next party will bondage-centered with a live bondage scene, but all kinks and fetishes are welcome.

Friday, January 26, 2024
9 pm to 1 am (enter by midnight)

 

Kink Brotherhood is a play party for gay and bi guys with kinks

 

If you go, be sure to follow their rules, available on the official website.

There are several other themed events as well, and you can sign up for email updates.

bondage-themed play party for men taking place in Brooklyn

Update on the New York Bondage Club

Sadly, it appears that the New York Bondage Club is gone. They shut down at the beginning of the pandemic, and that apparently was it. The club’s website has been down for some time now, and emails and IMs I have sent to the guys who used to run the club have gone unanswered.

New York Bondage Club

 

This makes me very sad, because in my view bondage clubs — where you can play in a safe space with other people present, or just watch — are a great place to learn and explore, especially for newbies in the scene.

New York Bondage Club

 

I had so many great times at the New York Bondage Club over the years. When I moved to NYC in 1992 it was the very first place I went! And my very first time there, I met and got tied up by none other than Bob Wingate and James Bond themselves, of Bound & Gagged magazine! I became a regular there, going almost every Friday night for years on end, starting at J’s Hangout, then various places in Chelsea including most recently Paddles.

New York Bondage Club

Here on the Metalbond site, I will leave the many postings about the New York Bondage Club up, but I am removing the links to their website that no longer exists.

Meanwhile, for those of you who live in other cities that still have bondage clubs, I encourage you to patronize them!

The Southern California Bondage Club in North Hollywood is active!

Man in Speedo Bound, Suspended by Sadist Group

By Speedobound

stud in a speedoA Speedo-wearing sub interrupts closed gathering of leather Doms in a dungeon seeking “serious” bondage tops for “a little fun”

I arrived at the local BDSM clubhouse for a previously scheduled Bondage night. The doorman told me that the schedule had been changed and that a workshop was in progress, but it would be finished soon. He asked me what “my thing” was, and I told him I have a Speedo fetish and I love getting bound and gagged while wearing a tight Speedo. He said he figured I would be able to find someone to play with me when the workshop was over because he thought it was a bunch of tops/doms and they might enjoy having a little bit of bondage fun after their program was finished.

Let me explain. I have always had a mixed feeling about wearing a Speedo. On the one hand, it immediately makes me feel exposed and vulnerable, since it leaves very little to the imagination. Most men are not used to having their private parts seen, and few men, straight or gay, are comfortable wearing a Speedo.

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Issue 2 of Bound & Gagged magazine

It’s impossible to describe the amount of excitement receiving a new copy of Bound & Gagged magazine in the mail in its discreet brown envelope caused me, every other month, back in the day. In addition to providing endless hours of jackoff material, this magazine literally changed my life. Learning about the existence of a bondage club with weekly meetings in NYC was a huge incentive for me to move here! And I met many men through the bondage club and in the Bound & Gagged personal ads — several of whom I am still friends with to this day.

Bound & gagged magazine classic issues

 

To my great delight, Bob Wingate, the editor and founder of Bound & Gagged and also the founder of the New York Bondage Club, recently revived his personal blog — located here — and he’s also started publishing eBooks — available here — with some of his magazine’s greatest hits.

New York and So Cal Bondage Clubs are canceling play events due to coronavirus

Hey fellow prisoners, please be advised that, in an effort to help keep everyone safe and healthy during the current COVID-19/Coronavirus pandemic, a number of kink/fetish groups and events — including the New York Bondage Club, the Southern California Bondage Club, LA Leather Pride and Desert Fetish Authority (home of the Palm Springs Bondage Club) — are canceling or curtailing their upcoming events.

The New York Bondage Club said they are canceling their play parties scheduled for the next two Sundays (3/15 and 3/22) and the So Cal Bondage Club said they are canceling all upcoming events, including their play party on 3/14, until further notice. Desert Fetish Authority says they are evaluating each event on a case-by-case basis.

See below for further information from these groups:

New York Bondage Club

Metal would everyone to stay safe and healthy — and remember, too, that the Prison Library is always open!

Bob Wingate returns with a new e-book

There’s a new eBook available from Bob Wingate, featuring some of the hottest stories from the New York Bondage Club newsletter and Bob’s popular vintage print magazine Bound & Gagged. The eBook is called “Spreadeagle Tales” and is available from Amazon:

Bob Wingate

 

“Spreadeagle Tales includes 18 tales from the newsletter I put out for the New York Bondage Club, which I founded in 1984, plus eight more great stories from the magazine — readers’ favorites and my own. It also includes an introduction by me about how the club and the magazine came into being,” Bob said in an email announcement. “A second eBook, ‘Natural Slave,’ will be coming out in the next month.”

You can get on Bob’s mailing list by writing him at bob@boundandgagged.com with the words “Put me on your mailing list” on the subject line. You can also write Bob at that address with any questions.

Also check out Bob’s blog, Bobwingate.com. After a hiatus of several years, he has recently started posting on it again!

Bound and Gagged magazine

The New York Bondage Club is going stronger than ever

You can join the men of the New York Bondage Club tonight — and every Sunday night:

New York Bondage Club

The New York Bondage Club says:

“Each week we play and have new guys coming to the party and getting into kinky fun. Some are first-time visitors, others have been there before but haven’t played, and of course many play all the time. Some come for a free massage, others to get off in the back. Some get naked, some just in underwear, and some stay dressed. You can chat at the soda bar, or get frisky around the club. Experience your fantasies. Don’t be shy, tell the guys what you want. That’s what makes the club work. See you on Sunday.”

The fine print:

“You must be over 18 years of age to come to the club and have a valid state ID in order to attend any of our parties. Please remember that no drugs or alcohol are allowed in our space.”

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