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Chastity Social at Rockbar in NYC

Check this out! There’s a monthly Chastity Social for locked guys, keyholders, and anyone interested in or curious about chastity! At Rockbar on Christopher Street in NYC. The next one is Feb 13, 2024, one week from today!

Chastity social at Rockbar NYC hosted by NYC Chastity Fag aka Peter Cage

 

Second Tuesday every month, 7pm

No cover

Cage check for a free shot

Clothes check available

This event is hosted by NYC Chastity Fag aka Peter Cage

Kink Brotherhood

There is a NEW bondage-themed play party for men taking place in Brooklyn (Park Slope section), hosted by Master Alek and Barry. For those of us who miss the glory days of the New York Bondage Club, this is great news! The new Kink Brotherhood is a play party for gay and bi guys with kinks.

The next party will bondage-centered with a live bondage scene, but all kinks and fetishes are welcome.

Friday, January 26, 2024
9 pm to 1 am (enter by midnight)

 

Kink Brotherhood is a play party for gay and bi guys with kinks

 

If you go, be sure to follow their rules, available on the official website.

There are several other themed events as well, and you can sign up for email updates.

bondage-themed play party for men taking place in Brooklyn

Custom chastity device fitting at The Leather Man in NYC

According to this page on the Kink3D website, there will be an in-store sizing for chastity devices this coming Saturday, January 20, 2024, from noon to 7:45 p.m. at The Leather Man in New York City. For guys who are interested in getting started with chastity, or longtime wearers looking for a better fit, or for anyone who wants to downsize, this sounds like a great opportunity!

male chastity devices

 

The official KINK3D site is here

And The Leather Man is here

KINK3D male chastity devices

The Leather Man NYC

If you go, be sure to tell them you heard about this on the Metalbond site!

Neil offers erotic hypno sessions

Check out Neil the Erotic Hypnotist:

erotic male hypnosis sessions in person and online Neil the Erotic hypnotist

 

This New York City-based hypnotist offers in-person AND online sessions. “With hypnosis, you can be made to feel any sensation you’re able to imagine, and even make elaborate scenes feel totally real. It’s a hot and safe way to explore your fantasies,” Neil says.

I personally had the pleasure of working with Neil twice, and you can read about my own experiences here and here. He was also profiled at Manhunt Daily.

Neil has many other testimonials — and lots more information — on his website, available here.

male erotic hypnotism sessions

Are you just a hole? If so, cage your dick and head to Locktoberfest!

The notorious Cagedjock is hosting the first annual Locktoberfest on Friday, October 6, 2023, at a top-secret location in Brooklyn:

Locktoberfest

 

This event, the first of its kind, is dedicated to the Locked Boys community — and is also open to tops who are eager to assert their dominance! Which are you?

Click for Locktoberfest

Find cagedjock on X (formerly Twitter)

Cagedjock is hosting the first annual Locktoberfest

Update on the New York Bondage Club

Sadly, it appears that the New York Bondage Club is gone. They shut down at the beginning of the pandemic, and that apparently was it. The club’s website has been down for some time now, and emails and IMs I have sent to the guys who used to run the club have gone unanswered.

New York Bondage Club

 

This makes me very sad, because in my view bondage clubs — where you can play in a safe space with other people present, or just watch — are a great place to learn and explore, especially for newbies in the scene.

New York Bondage Club

 

I had so many great times at the New York Bondage Club over the years. When I moved to NYC in 1992 it was the very first place I went! And my very first time there, I met and got tied up by none other than Bob Wingate and James Bond themselves, of Bound & Gagged magazine! I became a regular there, going almost every Friday night for years on end, starting at J’s Hangout, then various places in Chelsea including most recently Paddles.

New York Bondage Club

Here on the Metalbond site, I will leave the many postings about the New York Bondage Club up, but I am removing the links to their website that no longer exists.

Meanwhile, for those of you who live in other cities that still have bondage clubs, I encourage you to patronize them!

The Southern California Bondage Club in North Hollywood is active!