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By findingmyself1986
To start at Part 1, click here.
Note from Author: As with most of our fantasies, they start somewhere. For me several authors have wrote varying stories which have inspired mine. and for that I thank them.
As the party continues no other chips are drawn. By the time you are faced with recycling the third bag of piss you can take no more and agree for it to go down your suit, feeling the piss mix with your sweat. This liquid is almost a relief, as the piss cools the inside of your suit. You hope that no more yellow chips will be drawn. However after swallowing a few more loads a slave comes up to use you and draws a yellow chip.
The Master gleefully comes up and ask the slave what he will choose; the slave looking at you and then at the Master drops to his knees and begs the Master to push his limit. The Master gently takes the slave’s head in his hand and asks, “Are you sure?” The slave looking directly at you with some trepidation in his eyes tells the Master he is sure.
Today’s article about male chastity is a collaboration with Total Chastity.
Restriction, discipline, self-control. Male chastity has all the hallmarks of a practice that can completely change the dynamic of any relationship. But what if you made it permanent?
For many men, permanent chastity is the pinnacle of a submissive-dominant style relationship. Complete restriction, every hour of every day with no end in sight. But is it really like this?
One of the most common misconceptions is that permanent chastity means a man will be caged 24/7, and never experience any sexual release. While this can be true for some couples, it often isn’t like this and if you never allow the slave his sweet release then you could be missing out on many of the benefits of this kind of relationship.
Permanent chastity offers all the same benefits of a regular chastity relationship, but amplified. Physical and mental aspects intertwine to give the slave a new sense of self, bolstering their self-control, discipline, vulnerability and trust while the master can explore the sense of complete control they have over their partner.
Discover the many ways permanent chastity could enrich your lives in our frank and honest look at what it entails.
Psychological Benefits of Permanent Chastity
Making chastity a permanent fixture in your relationship brings a whole host of mental upheaval. For the slave it can be easy to be overwhelmed with anxiety and fear as he’s left wondering “when will the cage come off?” or “how long will I be free for?” Meanwhile, Masters can quickly succumb to the temptation of abusing their newfound power and must be careful to use chastity in a way that augments the existing dynamic.
When the right balance is found, though, permanent chastity can lead to a whole host of psychological benefits.
“I was initially apprehensive about the physical effects, but the emotional and psychological benefits have been incredible. It has opened up new avenues of intimacy and self-discovery within my relationship.”
—David, 23, Montana
The first area you’ll start to notice changes is in your self-control and personal discipline. While a chastity device does a good job keeping a man away from his cock, it’s not foolproof. If he really wants to get out then he will, even if it means bolt cutters. He might beg, he might plead, he might even bargain, but it’s up to the Master to maintain a strong will and not to give in to his slave.
This dynamic encourages both partners to exercise their own kind of self-control. Succeed, and not only will your chastity relationship get stronger, but you can start to apply the same skills to other aspects of your life.
As the pledge becomes more of a normal thing, you’ll both become more comfortable with it. Any initial reservations will fade away, and both will become better at resisting temptation. But then what?
Most couples will at this point start to push their boundaries. Staying locked up for a week wasn’t that bad, so why don’t we try a little bondage? How about some pain play, or electrostimulation. The empowerment you’ll feel from succeeding at chastity will empower you to try other things and be less hesitant about them. Again, this will feed into other areas of your lives and help you focus on doing the things that really matter to you.
And what comes with all these empowering psychological feelings? Well, you’ll feel good! Most couples who practice chastity find that over time their moods improve as they succeed in more and more aspects of their lives.
Permanent Chastity’s Impact on Relationships
Alongside the things you’ll personally feel on your journey into permanent chastity, your relationship will also change and grow. Letting someone have complete control over your pleasure (or taking control of someone else’s) is a big commitment, after all.
As you’d probably expect, this kind of relationship takes a lot of trust. There are plenty of examples of abuse that are thinly veiled as a kinky power dynamic, and plenty of dominants that are willing to take advantage of the situation. But if you do things right and work together, you’ll find that you have a much stronger, more trusting relationship.
To reach this point, you’re going to need the big C. No not cock, communication! Before, during and after any kind of chastity play you need to be having frank and honest chats with each other. What’s allowed? What isn’t? How did that make you feel? Did you like this?
“Embracing permanent chastity has brought a new level of intimacy and connection to our relationship. It has challenged us to communicate openly about our desires, boundaries, and fantasies, leading to a deeper emotional bond.”
—John, 34, Utah
It might seem awkward at first, but as the relationship develops discussing these things should become second nature, and over time you’ll find it much easier to communicate with each other. This communication should lead to a deeper understanding of your partner, which will help you keep a stronger, more intimate bond.
But let’s talk about what you’re really all interested in. How’s the sex?
One of the most common misconceptions about male chastity is that the slave never gets orgasms, you never have sex any more, and only the Master gets pleasure. This couldn’t be further from the truth!
Through careful manipulation of the amount of time locked up, how you act around each other, and how committed you are to the chastity dynamic, you’ll find that feelings like desire and anticipation will start to build. As your emotional connection strengthens, you’ll want each other to enjoy pleasure more and more. So when the time finally comes to fuck each other’s brains out, you’re going to have stronger, more intense orgasms and a lovely emotional high afterwards.
Not bad for a little chastity device, huh?
Long-Term Side Effects of Permanent Chastity
We’ve painted a rosy picture, but nothing’s perfect. There must be some kind of catch, right?
Well … sort of. There can be some side effects from wearing a chastity device long-term. Buuuut, they’re all temporary. After you remove the cage and keep it off for a while, you’ll find that any changes you had noticed go back to normal.
The most common changes you’ll notice are a bit of cock shrinkage (which some people might think is a benefit) or changes to the sensitivity of the penis. There can also be a slight odor problem as cages can get quite sweaty, so it’s important to remove the device for regular cleaning.
“The physical changes have been noticeable, but they have not diminished my sexual satisfaction. If anything, the heightened anticipation and intensity make the release all the more pleasurable.”
—Michael, 29, Ohio
Some men can also experience changes to their behavior, such as becoming more feminine, less assertive, or generally quieter. It’s hard to classify these as side-effects though as some dominants want their slave to behave this way, and all of these things can be achieved without chastity being involved.
Getting the Right Device for Permanent Chastity
We’ve talked a lot about emotions, feelings, and activities, but we’ve neglected the star of the show! If you’re going to start a permanent chastity pledge, you’re going to need a chastity device to enforce it.
There’s a whole host of different choices, but whatever style you go for you’ll mainly be choosing between a cock cage or a chastity belt. A cage covers the cock and prevents it from getting erect, whereas a belt covers the entire pelvic area (like a metal pair of pants) and prevents access to any genitals at all.
Generally men will go for a cage as their long-term chastity tool, as these are much less restrictive when it comes to clothing and using the bathroom. They’re also lighter and more comfortable, which can be a consideration when you’re wearing it all day.
Measuring for a Chastity Cage
The first step at a comfortable long-term device is taking the right measurements. This is a quick and simple process that you can either do with a soft tape measure, or a piece of string (if you use string make marks on the string at the appropriate points, then measure it next to a ruler).
Once you know which size you need, the world is your oyster. There are a huge range of cages to choose from, so you can find one that suits your style. Most slaves opt for either a silicone or metal device for long term wear, as these tend to be the most comfortable.
Silicone cages are softer and more lightweight, and these come in a variety of colors. Metal cages are firmer and heavier, but these tend to have more style options available.
Don’t be disheartened if the first cage you choose isn’t right for you! Most slaves will go through a few options before they find the one they want to wear long-term.
Permanent Chastity: Is It Worth the Effort?
We’ll leave you to decide if permanent chastity is the right thing for your relationship. While it does have its challenges, there are definitely rewards that come with it. If you’re going to give it a try keep your eyes on the prize and remember the benefits we’ve discussed every time you start to waver.
You can do it!
By Coinnigh
Today’s story was originally posted to the Chastity Belt and Device Fiction page (Altairboy’s site). It has been rewritten for a gay male audience.
It’s been three whole weeks. Three weeks of no fun. 21 days without my manhood. My Master has locked me into a chastity device. He loves it.
When we first met, I was the alpha male. I did whatever I wanted, and I got whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted it. He would give me oral sex whenever and wherever. I would not beg or plead; after pulling into a random date spot, restaurant or movie theatre, I would pull down my pants, point down and he knew his job. He loved it. I loved it. This was before the chastity.
In the future…
By Coinnigh
This story was originally posted to the Chastity Belt and Device Fiction page (the Altairboy site). It has been rewritten as a male-on-male story.
I remember the day it started and there is no end in sight, but I have only myself to blame and I would have it no other way.
‘I want to make sure you understand the rules before we go any further,’ he told me. ‘This began as your thing but if you go through with it there is no going back.’
For as long as I can remember, I wanted to be kept in chastity, I wanted my cock under lock and key, and controlled. Do not misunderstand me, I loved my cock but I know it got me into so much trouble even when I was serving great Masters, Sirs and the odd one nightstand. When I meet my now husband, we tried different kinks, fetishes and scenes, but I always came back to chastity for me. So it began.
By Coinnigh
This story was originally posted to the Chastity Belt and Device Fiction page (Altairboy’s site, link here). It has been “re-interpreted” as a male-male story.
After being married for ten wonderful years we still have a great marriage. We always enjoyed great sex, as well as a great relationship. Then about four years ago my life was changed drastically.
My husband, Dan, had gone to London with two of his best friends for a lads weekend getaway. He came back very relaxed and refreshed, and the night of his return we ended up in bed having one of the horniest nights of sex we had had for months. During the course of the night, Dan said he wanted to try something different. He has never disappointed me in the past so naturally I agreed. He took a small bag from his overnight bag and pulled out a metal chastity belt he bought in London. It had a narrow metal tube for my shaft to slide into and a handcuff like clasp welded onto the back which would lock around my balls and the base of my cock. He told me that his friend Rob keeps his husband Brad locked in a chastity belt and that he thought it would be fun to do the same to me. ‘Just for the weekend.’
Continue reading A Chasity Tale – Part 02: ‘Mark’s New Life’
Today’s article about male chastity is a collaboration with Lock The Cock
Michael and Ethan have an undeniable synergy in their relationship, where their connection appears effortlessly seamless. What everyone doesn’t know is the secret behind their success, the special ingredient that fuels their deep connection and unbreakable bond.
You might think this is the start of a soppy love story, but the true answer is much more intriguing. The strength of Michael and Ethan’s relationship doesn’t come from destiny, compatibility or luck, but a small cage and a pledge not to cum. Welcome to the world of male chastity, and the host of benefits it can give you.
Why Do Men Enjoy Male Chastity?
It sounds strange that men would enjoy putting their cock away and leaving it alone, after all most of them can’t stop touching it. But male chastity is widely enjoyed around the world, sometimes behind closed doors and sometimes loud and proud.
But what makes it so good?
To understand this, you’ll need to understand what male chastity truly entails. It isn’t just about denying one partner pleasure. It’s a bond that’s built up through trust and understanding. It’s a choice to relinquish control to your partner and let them provide for you.
All of these things combine to make a chastity pledge something rewarding that enhances the lives of both partners, and their joint relationship. Plus the sex is great too!
The Benefits of Male Chastity
So we’ve painted a nice picture, but what are these mysterious benefits we keep talking about?
“Male chastity has brought a new level of discipline and focus to my life. By relinquishing control over my sexual pleasure, I’ve found a heightened sense of purpose and self-awareness. It has strengthened our power exchange dynamic, making our connection stronger and more fulfilling.”
Ryan, 36, Rhode Island
As you begin to practice male chastity on a regular basis, you’ll start to notice various physical benefits and psychological benefits. These may include:
While some benefits may only apply to the slave in the relationship, there are still plenty that will also apply to the Master. Over time, this will mean that both will become stronger and more well rounded, and each be able to contribute more to a healthier overall relationship.
Chastity and Enhanced Pleasure
Let’s be honest though. Most of you aren’t as interested in these benefits as the effect on your sex life.
First off, we’ll dispel the biggest myth: Couples in a chastity relationship still have sex!
“Exploring male chastity has completely transformed our relationship. The act of wearing a chastity device has created an electrifying level of anticipation and desire, making every release a truly euphoric experience. It has deepened our emotional connection, fostering a level of intimacy we never thought possible.”
Simon, 32, Oregon
But just how does caging your cock make sex better?
To answer that we need to understand a little bit more about the chastity dynamic and how Masters will use the cage. He won’t just simply lock it up and forget about it. He’ll use it to tease his slave. Sometimes he might touch it, or just look at it, or even mention it. He might even talk about unlocking it, just to get the slave excited.
All of these simple acts will build up the anticipation over time, getting the slave excited and dashing his hopes again. He’ll become more and more desperate for his release sometimes even begging for it!
Alongside this mental torture, there are various physical elements at play. Many men find that as their penis is kept caged, it becomes more and more sensitive to even the slightest touch. Any edging and denial play will gradually start to build up his endurance, so he lasts longer during the big event. Some Masters won’t even let their slave cum unless they give the command.
Each aspect works together in tandem, building up to an overwhelming and intense crescendo when Master finally deems his slave worthy of release. These are some of the most intense orgasms a man can have, all made possible by that tiny little cage.
Chastity and D/S Relationships
While you can slot chastity into basically any relationship and see some benefit, where it really shines is in the dominant and submissive power dynamic. Each element of a D/S relationship can be further empowered, improving the experience for both partners.
“Exploring male chastity has been a revelation for me. As a slave, the act of wearing a chastity device has reminded me of my commitment to my Dom and our power dynamic. It has allowed us to establish clear boundaries, enhance communication, and strengthen our trust. The denial and longing have intensified our experiences when we do engage in sexual play, and I have found a profound sense of fulfillment and purpose in serving my Dom’s desires. Male chastity has truly enriched our BDSM journey and deepened the connection between us.”
Chris, 27, Texas
Every D/S relationship revolves around one simple idea: power exchange. One partner hands over power to the other and allows them to take the leading role in the relationship. Most of the time though, this is all done mentally. One partner simply does as the other says because that’s how a D/S relationship works.
Male chastity takes this a step further. Not only are you giving over control in an abstract sense, but you’re also giving over something physical: your cock. Each time you see the cage or feel it in your pants, you’ll be reminded of your submissive nature and of your dominant’s power.
This constant reminder will strengthen the dynamic of a D/S relationship, but there are also plenty of other aspects that overlap with male chastity. D/S relationships rely on a lot of trust between the two partners, open communication, and a giving of consent for any activities the couple want to do together. Male chastity formalizes many of these aspects, often in a chastity contract.
The chastity contract will typically go over when a man will remain caged, anything that is expected of him, anything expected of the Master, and anything that is off limits. When creating their contract, couples need to be completely open with each other and handle any potential consent issues. Having all of this in writing reinforces the trust between both partners as it is completely clear where they stand.
While most of these things are dealt with at the beginning of the relationship, there will still be a growing bond between both partners while using the cage. Each release will be a loving gift from Master, and to earn it the slave will go above and beyond to make sure Master’s needs are met. The relationship will become stronger and more intimate, in turn strengthening the D/S dynamic.
It’s because of this that chastity relationships are often the most successful kind of D/S relationship.
Male Chastity: The Relationship Enhancing Expert
No matter what kind of pledge you make, or what kind of relationship you’re in, it’s clear that male chastity can provide a whole host of benefits. As an individual, you can become much stronger through the personal growth that being caged can offer, while as a couple your bond will be enhanced with each passing day.
If you’ve never tried it before, there’s no better time than the present. Grab a cage and start exploring the exciting world of chastity with your partner, you won’t regret it.
