Tag Archives: how-to

Why Choose Male Chastity? A Comprehensive List of Benefits

Today’s article about male chastity is a collaboration with Lock The Cock

Why Choose Male Chastity?

A Comprehensive List of Benefits

Michael and Ethan have an undeniable synergy in their relationship, where their connection appears effortlessly seamless. What everyone doesn’t know is the secret behind their success, the special ingredient that fuels their deep connection and unbreakable bond.

You might think this is the start of a soppy love story, but the true answer is much more intriguing. The strength of Michael and Ethan’s relationship doesn’t come from destiny, compatibility or luck, but a small cage and a pledge not to cum. Welcome to the world of male chastity, and the host of benefits it can give you.

Why Do Men Enjoy Male Chastity?

It sounds strange that men would enjoy putting their cock away and leaving it alone, after all most of them can’t stop touching it. But male chastity is widely enjoyed around the world, sometimes behind closed doors and sometimes loud and proud.

But what makes it so good?

To understand this, you’ll need to understand what male chastity truly entails. It isn’t just about denying one partner pleasure. It’s a bond that’s built up through trust and understanding. It’s a choice to relinquish control to your partner and let them provide for you.

All of these things combine to make a chastity pledge something rewarding that enhances the lives of both partners, and their joint relationship. Plus the sex is great too!

The Benefits of Male Chastity

So we’ve painted a nice picture, but what are these mysterious benefits we keep talking about?

“Male chastity has brought a new level of discipline and focus to my life. By relinquishing control over my sexual pleasure, I’ve found a heightened sense of purpose and self-awareness. It has strengthened our power exchange dynamic, making our connection stronger and more fulfilling.”

Ryan, 36, Rhode Island

As you begin to practice male chastity on a regular basis, you’ll start to notice various physical benefits and psychological benefits. These may include:

  • Increased sexual stamina.
  • A better understanding of their limits.
  • Better control over their body.
  • Heightened senses.
  • Less awkward erections.
  • More self-discipline.
  • Finding it easier to focus.
  • Being more willing to experiment with new things or push boundaries.
  • An uplifted mood.
  • A stronger sense of who they are as an individual.
  • More self-confidence.
  • More resistance to temptation.

While some benefits may only apply to the slave in the relationship, there are still plenty that will also apply to the Master. Over time, this will mean that both will become stronger and more well rounded, and each be able to contribute more to a healthier overall relationship.

Chastity and Enhanced Pleasure

Let’s be honest though. Most of you aren’t as interested in these benefits as the effect on your sex life.

First off, we’ll dispel the biggest myth: Couples in a chastity relationship still have sex!

“Exploring male chastity has completely transformed our relationship. The act of wearing a chastity device has created an electrifying level of anticipation and desire, making every release a truly euphoric experience. It has deepened our emotional connection, fostering a level of intimacy we never thought possible.”

Simon, 32, Oregon

But just how does caging your cock make sex better?

male chastity devices discount codeTo answer that we need to understand a little bit more about the chastity dynamic and how Masters will use the cage. He won’t just simply lock it up and forget about it. He’ll use it to tease his slave. Sometimes he might touch it, or just look at it, or even mention it. He might even talk about unlocking it, just to get the slave excited.

All of these simple acts will build up the anticipation over time, getting the slave excited and dashing his hopes again. He’ll become more and more desperate for his release sometimes even begging for it!

Alongside this mental torture, there are various physical elements at play. Many men find that as their penis is kept caged, it becomes more and more sensitive to even the slightest touch. Any edging and denial play will gradually start to build up his endurance, so he lasts longer during the big event. Some Masters won’t even let their slave cum unless they give the command.

Each aspect works together in tandem, building up to an overwhelming and intense crescendo when Master finally deems his slave worthy of release. These are some of the most intense orgasms a man can have, all made possible by that tiny little cage.

Chastity and D/S Relationships

While you can slot chastity into basically any relationship and see some benefit, where it really shines is in the dominant and submissive power dynamic. Each element of a D/S relationship can be further empowered, improving the experience for both partners.

“Exploring male chastity has been a revelation for me. As a slave, the act of wearing a chastity device has reminded me of my commitment to my Dom and our power dynamic. It has allowed us to establish clear boundaries, enhance communication, and strengthen our trust. The denial and longing have intensified our experiences when we do engage in sexual play, and I have found a profound sense of fulfillment and purpose in serving my Dom’s desires. Male chastity has truly enriched our BDSM journey and deepened the connection between us.”

Chris, 27, Texas

Every D/S relationship revolves around one simple idea: power exchange. One partner hands over power to the other and allows them to take the leading role in the relationship. Most of the time though, this is all done mentally. One partner simply does as the other says because that’s how a D/S relationship works.

Male chastity takes this a step further. Not only are you giving over control in an abstract sense, but you’re also giving over something physical: your cock. Each time you see the cage or feel it in your pants, you’ll be reminded of your submissive nature and of your dominant’s power.

This constant reminder will strengthen the dynamic of a D/S relationship, but there are also plenty of other aspects that overlap with male chastity. D/S relationships rely on a lot of trust between the two partners, open communication, and a giving of consent for any activities the couple want to do together. Male chastity formalizes many of these aspects, often in a chastity contract.

The chastity contract will typically go over when a man will remain caged, anything that is expected of him, anything expected of the Master, and anything that is off limits. When creating their contract, couples need to be completely open with each other and handle any potential consent issues. Having all of this in writing reinforces the trust between both partners as it is completely clear where they stand.

While most of these things are dealt with at the beginning of the relationship, there will still be a growing bond between both partners while using the cage. Each release will be a loving gift from Master, and to earn it the slave will go above and beyond to make sure Master’s needs are met. The relationship will become stronger and more intimate, in turn strengthening the D/S dynamic.

It’s because of this that chastity relationships are often the most successful kind of D/S relationship.

Male Chastity: The Relationship Enhancing Expert

No matter what kind of pledge you make, or what kind of relationship you’re in, it’s clear that male chastity can provide a whole host of benefits. As an individual, you can become much stronger through the personal growth that being caged can offer, while as a couple your bond will be enhanced with each passing day.

If you’ve never tried it before, there’s no better time than the present. Grab a cage and start exploring the exciting world of chastity with your partner, you won’t regret it.

male chastity devices discount code

Male BDSM on the Internet: Master slave lifestyle website

For those who are interested in learning more about the Master/slave lifestyle, a great website is masterslavelifestyle.com.

One of my favorite articles there is this one about the psychological aspects of long-term cage confinement (pictured above). The site also has tons of lifestyle articles and even podcasts, including one featuring English Leather Master and his slave (pictured below):

English Leather Master and his slave

The site is created by controlledslave of Recon.

Click for masterslavelifestyle.com

masterslavelifestyle.com

Building a confinement box

Building a confinement box Metalbond 01

The builder of this confinement box sent the following information:

How did this all get started? A bondage buddy (BB) was coming to town and we usually have some good, intense bondage — switching out who tops the other. Summer is my busy season for construction, so I was hesitant to commit to more than a half day or overnight. But my body is always stronger and more aggressive in summer, and my hormones more active. So as usual, he talked me into more time.

Building a confinement box Metalbond 02I started getting much hornier thinking about inescapable bondage sessions for me, and I had some new ideas to restrain and torment him. He asked me to remind him about limits and fantasies. I don’t enjoy pain, but I do like confinement, imprisonment and chastity. Another bondage friend (BDF) was also going to join us for some twisted two-on-one restraining fun. From him I found out that that BB was planning to keep me in bondage the entire time and not let me top him. Fiendish planning like that REALLY gets me horny. So head first I went.

The next email planning effort with BB led to me agreeing to two weeks of self-enforced chastity and then locking into my metal chastity cuff the day before he arrives. By this point my hormones were swimming with arousal and I could be talked into far more than the frontal lobe would normally think smart. Knowing this, BB starts hinting that one of my fantasies about tight confinement in a coffin-like box could come true. All I need to do is build the box — after all, he said, “You have the tools and know-how, so how long could it take?” He was so matter-of-fact and what he said was ridiculously true, so I quickly said yes.

Building a confinement box Metalbond 03For the next two weeks before his arrival, my hormones were roaring. He has talked me into a longer session, two weeks of not cumming AND talked me into building my own prison — a confinement box. Then he adds a requirement that anytime I work on it, I must be wearing my metal chastity cuff! So I cut, screw and glue together this box, all the while clanking my chastity cuff against it, and carefully plan out my air holes so I don’t suffocate and planning where the eye-hooks should go to allow him ample ways to tie me into it. See where he had my poor head going? Right where he knew my dick would take me — even deeper into something twisted, inescapable, confining and very dark. Of course I realized this but couldn’t do anything but admire him and quickly give into my bondage-greedy instincts. So the next feature coming to my head via my dick was a padded floor on the box so I have no excuse for “sore back” to scream “let me out.” Next my dick (thru a then empty vassel called “my head”) sends a signal to order lots of furniture foam off the web cause it’s cheap at it can be stuffed in on top of me and around me to make sure sounds are muffled, I can’t move and there is constant pressure on me. What a genius dick I have! Oh, but it’s not just my dick that is thinking here, it’s my buddy as well.

Building a confinement box Metalbond 04He sends an email directing me to get some old boots and screw them to the floor panel of the box so that when I’m inserted, I can be laced tightly to the bottom panel — one-with-the-box! ‘GENIUS’ my dick thought while directing my fingers to search the web for a cheap used pair. Bingo. Boots found, attached and ready for feet — feet that thankfully don’t think like my dick or I’d really be in trouble. Last touches were a hinged lid with two big locking clasps on the opposite side and four carry handles on the outside. Oh, and finally, did I tell you that in the middle of all this dick-induced bondage-box building frenzy, my buddy got me to agree to a two-night session? Wish he had talked to me instead of my dick cause I might not be in this predicament right now.

Psycho SJ Bondage Projects

In a video update at Serious Male Bondage, PsychoSJ shows off two pieces of stainless-steel bondage gear that he and his friend Fesselschnecke built. Fesselschnecke used a CAD (computer aided design) system to design the gear, then used a regular bandsaw and TIG welder to make the bondage chair, and a CNC (computer controlled) laser cutter to make the vertical bondage stand parts. The first piece is a bondage transport chair that’s modeled after similar chairs used in law enforcement. The second piece is a vertical bondage device that PsychoSJ calls the “Bishop Stand.”

PsychoSJ shows off two pieces of stainless-steel bondage gear

 

See the VIDEO at Serious Male Bondage

Title of this update: Psycho SJ Bondage Projects

male bondage videos