BDSMU presents ‘Obedience 101’ workshop and play for Trainers (July 30) and Puppies (July 31) at the Eagle NYC:
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Chuck’s Cup Jock Chastity
Speaking of cup jock chastity, check out the pictures and information that Chuck sent a while back:
Chuck writes:
I was recently inspired by Metalbond’s post about using a cup to begin chastity training. So I wanted to show how a cup can also be used for REAL chastity.
Here’s a leather chastity belt I got from Worn Out West in The Castro. It works pretty well on its own, but by inserting a plastic cup (Like the one Metal suggested) into the pouch, it works perfectly … you are not able to touch ANY of your junk.
I wish I could wear this belt 24/7, but being leather, it’s not good to get it wet. Also, there’s no provision for when you need to go to the loo.
But here are a few pics to show how a cup makes a good belt better … even perfect for overnight and that morning wood, shall we say:
Here’s the chastity belt, the cup, and two combination locks, all needed for the restraint.
The cup sneaks in, ready to do its dirty work.
Getting everything in place here. Everything!
There it is, all good and tight. Now what were those combinations again?
There we are, all tucked in for the night. And I have tried hard, it will not come off. The belt fits just above my pelvis, and it won’t drop down when it’s strapped on and locked.
This thing is so comfy… I wish it would work all the time.
—Chuck
Chuck can be found on Gearfetish.com as “Kuffed.”
He’s also been featured over at SeriousMaleBondage from time to time.
‘How to Negotiate a BDSM Scene’ workshop this Wednesday
Sir Guy will present a workshop — ‘THE ART OF THE DEAL: How to Negotiate a BDSM Scene’ — this Wednesday, June 25, 2014, at The Leather Man in NYC.
For details and to get a ticket, click here.
They are also offering a VACUUM PUMPING workshop, on Thursday.
Diagram: How to make a device like the one in Marknorth’s story ‘The Device’
Marknorth sent this information a while back, about making a device as described in his story The Device. (To read the story, it’s in three parts in Marknorth’s author page in the Prison Library …. click here and scroll down.
Here’s what Marknorth says,
Dear Metal,
Attached is an overview of existing technology that could be easily adapted to create a version of “the device” from my story.
Although not “self-contained” as the one in the story, it would be relatively easy for the chastity slave to carry the transmitter. The range for control is also limited to 7 miles (maximum with no interference), but the GPS tracking ability is wide-ranging.
Obviously, the equipment is for tracking and training dogs, but the idea carries over. The cock-ring modification is one of the smaller rings from my CB6K.
And here is Marknorth’s diagram (click to enlarge):
Class tomorrow: How to turn your favorite underwear into latex underwear
The folks over at NYC’s Purple Passion are offering a class at 2 p.m. tomorrow (Sunday April 13) on “Patterning for Latex”
This class (30 bucks) is at Purple Passion in NYC.
They say you can bring in your favorite latex, spandex, lycra, underwear, athletic wear or swimwear and make a pattern for the latex garment of your dreams! Alternatively, you can choose from an easy-to-create pattern and customize it to emphasize your best assets.
For details on this class (open to all sexes and sexual orientations), click here.
DIY leg irons
Oh, the trouble a guy can get into after a visit to Home Depot!
These improvised leg irons are made of pipe clamps and chain. The “key” is a screwdriver or nut driver. They can be as tight and short as you want, and they cannot be removed with fingers. I would definitely apply these over boots.
This picture and information is from OldMan and was posted on Eckie’s bondage site.
Quicksand!
Are you a sinker or a watcher?
Do you want to get stuck in quicksand? Or watch someone get trapped?
Check out the helpful how-to article, “A Recipe for Quicksand,” by clicking HERE. And you can hear a podcast HERE.
Also click for quicksandfans.com.
(I bet our friend Bind would get a kick out of this!)
Men’s Group for Novices in S/M offered in New York City
**I posted this before, and I am told there are still spots available**
For those of you in NYC who are interested in learning more about S/M, a special educational opportunity is available starting in January 2014. A novices course is being led by my friend Gil. It is an excellent opportunity to learn in a safe and supportive environment. I know, because I took this course myself, many years back. It meets Sunday afternoons in January, February and March and it covers the basics like rope bondage, spanking and flogging, to more advanced play like electro and mummification.
See below for specific details.
—Metal
TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) is sponsoring the Men’s Group Series for NOVICES in S/M, beginning January 5, 2014
THIS COURSE IS ONLY OFFERED ONCE A YEAR.
For the 25th year, Gil K will conduct a course consisting of 6 four-hour S/M workshops for both “Tops” and “bottoms” who have little or no experience (or who simply want to brush up on their skills). It is open to men who are at least 19 years of age, and is limited to 24 attendees maximum. You do not have to be gay or a TES member, but attendees must feel comfortable being nude at times (sessions 3, 4, 5, and 6) and working with other men. Everyone participates as both top and bottom, as we demonstrate and workshop everything in a way that is enjoyable, fun, but educational.
Among the areas covered will be basic bondage, spanking and flogging, tit and genitorture, rope harnesses, things that pinch, mummification, and electricity (see the schedule below). The course meets every other Sunday afternoon from 3-7 pm, beginning January 5. There is a one-time fee of $30 for TES members or $40 for non-members that covers all the supplies, notes, and refreshments for the course.
Here is the schedule:
1. Intro to S/M; Being a Good Top/bottom; Basic Rope Bondage, 1/5/14
2. Spanking and Flogging; handout: Caning, 1/19/14
3. Gags/Blindfolds; Tit Play & Genitorture (including Abrasion & Bruising), 2/2/14
4. Rope Harnesses; Things That Pinch; Orchestrating the Scene (& Role Play and Fantasies), 2/16/14
5. Mummification, 3/2/14
6. Basic Electricity for Pleasure; Round Table Discussion, 3/16/14
For more information or to apply, contact Gil at novices2014@yahoo.com, and leave your name and phone number. Gil will get back to you quickly.
Only those officially signed up for the course may attend, and no new people are added after session 2. It is not a “pick-and-choose” course, so do not apply unless you can attend most of the sessions (check with Gil about other attendance requirements). The workshops are held at Gil’s home in the West Village in New York City. If you are interested, make contact as soon as possible to reserve a place.