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Bondage stories for you prisoners to beat off to
Relationship to the Next Level
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Got a story to share with Metalbond readers? Send it to me, but please remember to put your name on it so I know where it came from. Also keep these content guidelines in mind: no poop, no pets, no pussy.
New top banner
So how do you guys like the new top banner? Thanks to Mark of SeriousMaleBondage for photographing me in Yossie’s cell.
Boot bondage pics, boot porn sites, and a preview of upcoming bootblacking event in SF
I think boots are awesome. I’ve certainly licked my share, and had my own licked and worshipped. I used to be a bootblack at leather events in NYC, and I was first-runner-up bootblack at IML way back in 1998 and 1999. With that in mind, here are some various boot-themed bondage and fetish images gathered from various sites on the net:
… and while we are on the subject of boots, check this out:
BOOTBLACKING: A BACKSTAGE PASS — with Nick Elliott
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
7:30 pm – 9:30 pm @ Mr S. Playspace, 385A Eighth Street
Come and let NICK ELLIOTT, INTERNATIONAL MR BOOTBLACK 2012, show you the ancient mysteries of the bootblack, from the basics of how to care for your leather, to how to negotiate the bootblack chair — both as a client and a bootblack.
This event is sponsored by the San Francisco Leathermen’s Discussion Group — More information here.
Also for more boot bondage — and foot bondage — check out these sites:
Boot Lust
Jail Training Center / The Academy
There once was a place just outside Atlanta with realistic jail cells, solitary confinement and a padded isolation chamber. It was a place where you used to be able to go and — for a fee — have real cops and military guys (supposedly straight, but who knows) lock you up and work you over. When they were operating under the name of the Jail Training Center, I went twice. Here is a picture during my first visit of my boots when I was locked in one of their cells, and another picture during my first visit of me hogtying a guy.
There is also some video out there somewhere of me helping restrain another guy in a straitjacket, which I have never seen. I have since lost touch with the guy who was running it, and I am not sure if the place is even still in operation. If it is still running, I am not aware of it. Before the place in Atlanta, they also had a facility in Missouri. It was also called The Academy.
Coming at you with a gag
Housekeeping detail about the links on this site
My web developer told me that the long list of links to external sites in the sidebar to the right is slowing this site down.
So I went through the list of “More Bondage Sites” and moved a bunch of these links over to the “Blogroll” list, which is only visible if you click on the Links page and scroll down the sidebar on the right on that page.
The sites I bumped to the Blogroll fall into a several different categories:
- Sites that have not been updated in ages
- Sites that are not linking back to me
- Sites that are linking to me but have not changed their reciprocal link from my old Thumblogger page to my new URL, which is:
MetalbondNYC
Thumblogger went down on April 18 and is most likely gone forever. So anyone who clicks from another site on a non-updated link for Metalbond with Thumblogger in the URL will get nowhere.
For those of you who have your own sites who already are linking back to me, thank you very much!
(If any of you who got bumped to the blogroll get a chance to update your link for me with my correct URL and you want back on my main page, please let me know so I can move you back.)
As always, you can get in touch with me by using the contact form in the upper right of the About page.
The difference between consensual play and abuse
By Metalbond
Guys, I have said this before, but it bears repeating now, because this is important.
A lot of what is depicted on this site involves what appears to be forced action, torture, beatings and the like … but please know that everything shown here is consensual. That is, nobody depicted on this website is getting restrained and beaten up against his will.
It’s never acceptable to put another human being in physical restraints against his or her will, or to do anything to another person that he or she does not want to have happen.
All of the porn pictures you see here about a supposedly “straight” guy getting tricked into bondage and then mercilessly fucked, forced to suck cock and pissed on, well … as you probably know all of that is fantasy. They guy is a paid porn actor, and he wants it. That’s why every Bound Gods and Bound In Public video begins and ends with an interview with the subjects, in which they discuss this. Sure, it may look like things are getting a bit rough at times, but everyone needs to know that nobody is getting beaten up against his will.
Of course many of us fantasize about being tied up and “worked over” hard by a sadistic prison guard or military drill instructor, or doing that to another guy, and there is nothing wrong with having such interests and desires … but there is a difference between such a fantasy, and what can cross the line into actual abuse.
Personally, I have been in situations where that line has been crossed, and it is not pleasant, not hot, and it is definitely not acceptable.
Many of my more vanilla gay friends, guys who know what I am into but really don’t “get it,” if you know what I mean, sometimes crack jokes that rub me the wrong way. We’ll be at a bar or party and there will be some annoying guy, acting like a creep, and they will say something like, “why don’t you go get your gag and shut that guy up” or “he belongs locked up in your cage.”
But what I always try to explain, to make really clear to them, is that I don’t have any desire whatsoever to put my handcuffs on any guy who does not WANT that to happen. I guess I am just not wired that way.
The bottom line is that it’s OK to have a fantasy about something that is truly forced, to beat off about it while looking at porn, or even to “act out” such things in “role play” … as long as whatever you do in real life is consensual.