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No Safe Word podcast

I participated in a Podcast over at the No Safe Word site:

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I had a great time talking with Sparky, Daddy Tony and Mikey — and they had a whole bunch of cool guys in the audience as well.

To play the podcast, click here.

They taped the audio long-distance over skype, so were able to see each other. That was extra fun for me, because Mikey was in a leather sleepsack the whole time! With a milking machine on his cock:

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We talked about a whole range of topics, and if you want to follow along with some of the discussion points, you might want to check out these postings here at Metalbond:

Clips vs locks

Stories

Bound and Gagged magazine

James Bond

GMSMA

GMSMA newsletter

Metalbond’s cage

and

The Padded Cell Inmate

 

One error I made during the podcast: I mistakenly said the Padded Cell Inmate was in captivity for 28 days. It was actually 19 days.

 

Anyway. If any of you guys listen to the podcast and enjoy it, be sure to send some feedback to the No Safe Word guys. Also be sure to check out the other contents of the No Safe Word site. They have lots of other podcasts, plus tons of videos, stories and lots more.

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Inmate jumpsuit and police belly chain

I wore this out in public a couple of times over the past week:

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Last Saturday I went to a couple of bars, including The NYC Eagle for NYBOL’s Frat Night party. I ran into a bunch of old friends and new acquaintances, including Neil the Erotic Hypnotist, “the Twink,” David Stein, londonslv and of course my favorite bartender — Gregory (who now has is very own Tumblr feed, check it out!).

It was fun to see people’s reactions. I rode Citibikes everywhere and got all sots of comments from passers-by and motorists. On the way home last Saturday I ran into a very hot Clark Kent, who said he liked my “jailbreak city” outfit.

I also wore this to my gay bowling league, but I was the only one who dressed up for that.

Anyway, if you’ve ever wanted to walk around outside in a prisoner uniform and handcuffs, Halloween is the perfect “cover” to get away with it.

Happy Halloween, everyone!

 

 

 

The LURE

Does anyone remember  the LURE leather bar in NYC? I wrote the article below for GMSMA’s newsletter, NewsLink, back in 2003, after my favorite leather bar closed down.

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Farewell to the LURE

By MetalbondNYC

The LURE, New York City’s popular leather bar, closed on April 9, 2003, after nearly a decade of being the place to go for leather guys. GMSMA, the Renegades, Iron Guard and other local groups held bar nights at the LURE, and after the Manhole closed the bar became home to GMSMA’s Dungeon Demos. The LURE was also home to its own events such as the popular Pork on Wednesdays, regular rubber and uniform nights, foot fetish parties, and more.  You could shop in the Noose II store, and get your boots shined by the bootblack on duty.  The bar also popped up on HBO’s “Sex and the City,” when Samantha moved in upstairs.

The brainchild of the late Wally Wallace and bankrolled by a number of investors from within the community, the LURE (an acronym for Leather, Rubber, Uniforms, Etc.) opened in January 1994.   And while it did not actually turn a profit for its owners until several years later, leather men showed up in large numbers at the bar, which was jam packed every weekend in the early ’90s.

The LURE was a place to strut your stuff, to wear fetish attire of all kinds — leather and tall boots, cop or firefighter gear, rubber/latex, combat fatigues. Even guys dressed as gas station attendants were right at home there.  You could cruise for a hot leather daddy, collar a slave, or make out with a hot guy in the back.  And it wasn’t uncommon to see men there licking boots, torturing nipples, or even gulping down piss from beer bottles or glasses.

The bar was far from perfect — a dress code that was once enforced became somethig of a joke, as “tourists” and guys in sneakers would try to blend in with leather cops and rubbermen.  And that $7 cover charge seemed a little steep.  At least you got a ticket for your first drink.

As the rise of the Internet slowed business (who wants to schlep across town to pick up a trick when you can go online and “order in”?) attendance was way down, especially on Friday nights during the summer months.  When the Eagle re-emerged on West 28th Street, it drew many men away from the LURE, but most of the leather guys stayed.

In the end, some of the same forces that led Samantha to take that apartment upstairs contributed to the demise of the LURE.  Real estate in the Meat Market district became red hot as condos, nightclubs and restaurants started popping up like weeds.  The LURE’s lease was up, giving the landlord the opportunity to jack up the rent.  And when insurance premiums skyrocketed as well, it made the LURE’s existence at its West 13th Street location no longer finiancially viable for its owners.  There was talk of the bar relocating to a new space, but that turned out to be just talk.

Many of us will always have good memories of the LURE and the good times we had there over the years.   And we’ll also remember many of its former employees — Russ and John, the two bartenders who stayed with the bar for the whole run.  And Joey, one of the bar’s first managers, who was always there in full leather, rubber or fetish gear to greet regular customers with a smile.  And don’t forget Dominic, who with his tattoos and piercinngs was the most intimidating-looking doorman New York has ever seen.

So it’s the end for the LURE, at least for now.   It just goes to show that nothing lasts forever.  Just ask those who used to hang out at the Spike, the Altar and even the Mineshaft.

 

 

 

September bondage story month continues!

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Hey prisoners,

Are you enjoying the ‘bondage-story-a-night’ month here on Metalbond? It continues with these recent additions to the Prison Library:

 

A Device for Self-Bondage

Gala Evening

Read the Instructions

Relationship to the Next Level – Part 2

Waiting for Ross: A Master Key to the Complete Series

You Will Be in Bondage for the Rest of Your Life

 

Lots more coming, including more from Marknorth, rts, Mister X Spartan, and more. I just finished up setting up these nightly story updates for the rest of the month, so keep coming back every night. Damn, this was a lot of work setting all this up. I hope you guys appreciate it! Don’t forget to leave comments in the comments section if there are any stories you particularly enjoy!

 

 

 

 

 

Thank you

A big THANK YOU!!! to everyone who has contributed to the “fund drive” here on Metalbond. You know who you are. Your help is greatly appreciated. I’m going to keep the PayPal button up for a while longer in the upper right hand corner:

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The money is for site hosting fees and other expenses. If anyone else wants to pitch in a few bucks, it would really help. It’s billed as “Locker Jock,” and you can pick between three options: “Minimum-security,” “Super-max” and “Life Without Parole.” Which one are you?

GMSMA NewsLink

!NewsLink49-50Before I had this website, waaaaaay back a long time ago, I was a member of Gay Male SM Activists (GMSMA), a New York City-based organization. GMSMA aimed to promote safe, sane and consensual SM through three “pillars” — education, activism and social activities. Sadly, GMSMA closed up shop a few years back. (To read about that, click here.)

I was editor of NewsLink, the newsletter for GMSMA, for about five years, and I was recently going through some boxes of old stuff and I came across a bunch of old issues. Here is a sampling:

NewsLink_inside_JocksSM NewsLink_inside_TattooJourney_cover NewsLink_inside_TattooJourney_inside NewsLink45 NewsLink56I did not want to throw my extra copies away, so Hilton over at Purple Passion here in NYC graciously agreed to distribute them. You can stop by Purple Passion, located at 211 West 20th Street just west of 7th Avenues in Manhattan, and pick up a copy.

While you;re at it, you might want to buy something, because they are having a huge sale this week. They also have a very large stock of vintage magazines available for really cheap.

Click the box below for the Purple Passion website:

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If you stop in, be sure to tell them that Metalbond sent you!

‘You Are Under Arrest’

Dalton Ott has written an illustrated article for The Serious Male Bondage Journal about recreational institutional incarceration, called ‘You Are Under Arrest,’ and I am happy to report that I am in two of the pictures!

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Yes, that’s me behind bars. I’ve also been in more than one of the various other cells pictured in the article. To read the whole thing, click here.