The New York Bondage Club taking over Paddles this FRIDAY, Nov. 28.
The NYBC normally plays on Sundays, but this week because of the holiday they are playing on Friday AND Sunday.
On Friday Nov 28 the NYBC meets for play from 9 pm to 2am, while on Sunday, Nov 30, they play during the normal time.
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New York Bondage Club
Haunted Dungeon Party
7 – 10 p.m.
AFTER PARTY 10 p.m. – 1 a.m.
NYBC says:
We’ve transformed Paddles into our own unique Dungeon with tricks and treats all night long. We will have a giant spider web, a mummy’s coffin, fluorescent body painting, a spanking bench, dripping candles and much more.
Arrive early and in costume, a mask or full leather, rubber or fetish gear, and you get into the club for only $10. Invite your friends and enjoy the night.
This party is a great way to experience a little bit of everything. Our guys are here to cater to your likes. Spend a few minutes tied up in the web, get a glowing design on your chest, ass or wherever, feel hot wax on your abs, get yourself wrapped up, mummified, and placed in a coffin. Wander behind the maze and get surprised. Lots more stuff to try too.
Or just come and enjoy the decor. BYOB if you want, or we have a soda bar. Free munchies and treats, or is it tricks you want
Stay for the After Party until 1 a.m. for free.
Don’t miss out on this party. We have lots of new guys that have been invited and we hope you are there to enjoy the party and Experience IT!
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The New York Bondage Club meets every Sunday night
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A Metalbond reader recently sent me this via email:
Dear Metal,
I’m 33 years old, gay male. I’m looking to sort of “ease into” local gay BDSM. I’m a bit sexually shy, but I have, as long as I can remember, found myself attracted to BDSM. I’ve finally worked up the nerve to try and get into it beyond looking at websites. I’m looking for advice on how or where I should go in New York City to meet some people. If you have any advice, it would be greatly appreciated.
My response:
A great place to start is the New York Bondage Club. They meet on Sunday nights at Paddles on 26th Street. You can join in the action if you like, or just watch, and it is great place (in my opinion) for beginners.
The education-focused GMSMA (Gay Male S/M Activists) closed down several years back, but some of the alumni from this organization have formed BDSMU, which bills itself as “a new organization focused on building education and camaraderie in the NYC kink community.” They offer monthly events at the Eagle NYC. You can connect with BDSMU via their Facebook page.
Workshops and classes on various topics are also offered at The Leather Man (primarily gay men) and Purple Passion / DV8 (a more “heteroflexible” crowd) on various topics. Check their websites for class offerings, times and dates.
Also, if you haven’t already done so, should put up a profile on Recon. There are lots of local guys out there, and if you get the app you might find (since this in New York Fuckin’ City) that some very hot bondage stud is closer than you can imagine! And he can’t wait to get his hands on a horny newcomer like you!
When you do meet up with someone, be sure to be careful! That means meeting in a public place before going home with the guy, telling someone where you are going, etc. You might find this article from the Anti-Violence Project especially helpful.
Have fun — and send me an email sometime telling me about your adventures!
—Metal
The New York Bondage Club has extended hours for their play party this weekend. Click the image below for details:
Right here in New York Fuckin City
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Sunday night is bondage night, right here in New York Fuckin City
If you have never been to the New York Bondage Club, you should definitely go and check it out. They meet every Sunday night.
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